Just a mom

does anyone else feel like they lost the "romance"?? I sure do! I feel like all i am is ellies mom lately, I've even dressed up cute I do my hair and make up and what not. It just seems like all I do is feed, change diapers, clean the house and MAYBE get a quick shower in while ellie sits in her swing in the bathroom. I'm not sure if me becoming mommy has altered friends, family and even hubbys view of me, but it seems like i can only be mom, not sexy wife, or best friend to talk to, or anything worth impressing. I know i chose this and I love my baby girl sooo much but I would love to feel like more than just mommy right now and i just dont see that happening